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May 10

用微笑面对生活

      有时会心烦,会浮躁,因为感受不到快乐。如果我们每个人能放宽心,找到属于自己的幸福,我们就不会烦恼。我们不能选择自己的家庭,但可以选择自己的人生。
 
      时代不允许我们花太多时间去悲伤,去自怜。我们已经失去了太多宝贵的时间,所以不能再迟疑,很多事必须从现在开始。在这样的一条路上,有时我们难以赶上时间的步伐,但我们也不必悲伤,因为我们一直在追赶,一直珍惜自己所拥有的一切。
 
      秒针嘀嗒一声意味着我们的生命少了一秒。老人就是老了,青春已逝,一去不复返。我总是提醒自己我还年轻,不要再感叹,寻找生活中的快乐吧。想到一句话了“快乐是一天,不快乐也是一天,为什么不快乐呢”。用微笑面对生活,我们并不是不幸的人。 
 

面对缺点

      找工作那段时间对自己的优缺点进行了分析和总结,好像缺点远多于优点。我相信我是一个能看自己缺点的人,曾经犯过什么错,别人早已忘记,我却把它们放进我记忆的盒子里。
 
      但是很多人都难以看到自己的缺点,就像改自己的语法错误。一直以来都认为是对的,所以不管看多少遍还是很难发现错误。我们往往习惯将错的看成是对的,久而久之就失去了判断对错的能力,更何况要找出自己的缺点。
 
      坦然的面对,真诚的接受,每个人都有情绪,怀着一颗理解的心,我相信我们不会再烦恼。
May 06

最近懒了

      好久都没有写日志了,懒了。。。
 
      漂浮的心终于安定下来,以后好好工作,给自己一个交代。
 
     猴子哥也要加油,明天会更好的。眨眼
April 01

终于早起了

   又失眠了,睡觉这么美好的事也可以这么痛苦。我不再怕黑暗,怕的是自己内心的不安。
  
   妈妈叫我保持一个好心情,少想一些,可能阿姨的话提醒她了。本来一早有些想骂人,忍一忍就过去了,希望今天是happy的一天。
 
   开始奋斗论文了,今天一定要完,然后安排好自己的时间。加油!
  
March 25

we are on the way

    最近跟好多朋友都联系上了,晓玲,湫湫,室长,璐璐。和他们聊天好像又回到当年八人一间的宿舍。我总认为朋友是一辈子的,即使不联系,那种亲近的感觉永远也不会消失。
 
    湫保送进清华了,硕博连读,继续六年学习生活;室长去了广州华夏银行,晓玲和那个他相亲相爱,璐璐也在争取出国的机会。听到大家的好消息,只有一个感觉,我们都长大了,不再是以前爱打闹的孩子了。
 
   璐璐要回去面试了吧,英语不好可以练习,真希望你能出国,加油,加油!
March 23

love songs feast

      

         My friend delivered me song love songs feast. It evokes my old memories and some thinking about my future. The melody seems to strike down into the very depths of my nature and play upon my heart-strings. I can’t hold back my tears. They flow down my cheek and come into my mouth. Hearing the melody, I hope I could melt into tears, and eventually change myself into a vapor.       

 

      I thought I was not what I used to be. However, I am wrong, nothing can change my nature. I am still sentimental and to some extent, getting sadder. How can I release myself into air and be gone with wind?

March 22

嗮太阳去吧

    终于出太阳了,把发霉的被子,发霉的衣服,发霉的心情都拿出去晒晒。
 
    昨晚爸说碰到勾叔了,问起了我的情况,都支持我去银行。没有选择的时候觉得自己很无奈,有了选择的时候又觉得为难。一个选择就决定了自己人生的方向,也许永远都与自己的理想背道而驰。
 
    彭说,别管别人的看法,先弄清楚自己想得到什么。是啊,想得到什么?曾经我想去英国或日本,想离开自己熟悉的家乡,不再回来;还想坚持自己的职业规划,去挑战自己,成为一个外贸界的精英。而现在可能什么都不能实现了。
 
    每次跟偶像说话,心里就有种冲动,我也希望像他那样成功。也许有些年少轻狂,不知道前方的路的艰辛,只有自己遇到了挫折才知道悔恨。怎样的选择才不会让自己后悔?有得必有失,得到的非自己想要的,失去的确实自己最看重的。
March 18

自欺欺人

      “Nature never deceives us; it is always we who deceive ourselves.” Rousseau said.
 
     又何尝不是呢,自欺欺人,可怜至极。骗到最后自己也不知道什么是真,什么是假。
 
     当有一天不得不接受现实的时候,才感觉自己赤裸裸,无处可逃。
 
     只有大自然才能给我们一个放松,安逸的心境。抛弃一切谎言,做回自己。卢梭的《瓦尔登湖》不正是在那样一个清静,干净的环境中完成的吗?我不能像那些哲人一样领悟到自然的哲理,但我也能从中得到更好的启发,能更好的理解自己的人生。
     
     我想藏起来,到一个谁都不能找到我的地方,不被人打扰,安宁的过自己的生活。然而我又放不下自己所拥有的这一切,我的亲人,我的爱人,我的朋友。是啊,我的人生里有他们才有意义,抛弃他们,我就是一叶孤零零的小舟,经不起风吹浪打。 
 
     但我始终相信,没有什么比活着更好,鄙视那些不珍惜生命的人。
    
    
March 15

weather and mood

      today is cloudy and it is overcast with drizzle. weather affects my mood a lot, depressed, lost and confused.
 
      in the four years, i always felt an urge to learn english, especially my oral english, but i never did. after TEM--8, i realise i am not responsible for myself and made a big mistake that university provides me many opportunities to improve myself, but i failed. i need reflection every day and reflect on my own thoughts and feelings.
 
     just now i read a messege in my friend's qq space.it has just dawned to me that she went to shanghai. she has an ambition which is clear to me. what i never know is she puts every effort to make it come true. once we were good friends, but now we have no close communication .we are floating far away from each other. eventually we become strangers.
 
    it seems that eveyone is running forward, while i stand there as an viewer. i am alone and afraid.

让我们的一生少些遗憾吧

You do not keep anything for a special occasion, because every day that you live is a SPECIAL OCCASION.
不要将一切都为某一天而准备,因为你生活的每一天都是那么特别;
  
Search for knowledge, read more, sit on your porch and admire the view without paying attention to your needs;
不断汲取知识,多读一些书,坐在家里的前廊上,用赞美的眼光去享受眼前的风景,不要带有任何功利的想法;
  
Spend more time with your family and friends, eat your favorite foods, visit the places you love;
多花点时间和朋友与家人在一起,吃你爱吃的食物,去你想去的地方;
  
Life is a chain of moments of enjoyment; not only about survival;
生活是一串串的快乐时光;我们不仅仅是为了生存而生存;
  
Use your crystal goblets. Do not save your best perfume, and use it every time you feel you want it.
举起你的水晶酒杯吧。不要吝啬洒上你最好的香水,想用的时候就用吧!
  
Remove from your vocabulary phrases like "one of these days" or "someday";
将所谓的"有那么一天"或"某一天"从你的字典中删掉
  
Let's write that letter we thought of writing "one of these days"!
曾打算"在那么一天"要写的信,就在今天提笔吧!
  
Let's tell our families and friends how much we love them;
告诉家人和朋友,你是多么的爱他们;
 
Do not delay anything that adds laughter and joy to your life;
做一切可以给你的生活带来欢笑与快乐的事情;
  
Every day, every hour, and every minute is special, and you don't know if it will be your last.
每一天、每一小时、每一分钟都是那么特别;你无法知道这是否是你的最后一刻。
 
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hyde jiangwrote:
全部删掉了
吐舌
有天吵架了
对爱情完全没了信心
很坏的习惯
每次跟他吵架
我都对永久彻底的
删掉那些照片
所以现在我想看我的以前的照片
几乎没什么了
尴尬
June 16
hyde jiangwrote:
希望你没遭受到地震
好运
May 18
端木杨wrote:
对着星星许下愿望 ,并且尝试着去相信
即使一切是多么遥远 ,他会在圣诞夜来到。
一切都会好的,加油。
Dec. 26
wrote:
一切都会好的。。
Oct. 5
Wision wrote:
祝你好运! 
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